The Complete Idiot s Guide to Amazing Sex
Book Title: The Complete Idiot s Guide to Amazing Sex
Author: Sari Locker
Publisher: Alpha; 1 edition (April 22, 1999)
Paperback: 352 pages
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0028629027
ISBN-13: 978-0028629025
Book Description
Sexy is as sexy does, according to Sari Locker (called our favorite tantalizing sex writer by Playboy magazine). But how to feel sexy if you re a virgin, or if you ve experienced sexual problems, or have serious body image hang-ups? The Complete Idiot s Guide to Amazing Sex succeeds in not only teaching technique (as well as a book can), but also offers serious advice for boosting your self-esteem. As with other Complete Idiot guides, you ll probably want to turn this one backwards in your bookcase, or at least get a book cover for it. But get past the silly title and you ll find a plethora of facts, tips, and tricks on topics including sexual response, masturbation, foreplay, afterplay, oral sex, fantasy, sex toys, sexual preference, cross-dressing, and The Big Om : tantric sex.
The margin notes liberally decorating the book are worth a hearty chuckle. The Sextistics are particularly fun and eye-opening. Locker, a sex educator and WCBS-TV relationship correspondent, has been a sex educator for more than a decade. That gripe aside, Amazing Sex is worth investigating by both sexual neophytes and experienced couples looking to maintain a state of hot monogamy.
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Great Sex Tips



This is a little book of sex tips that has been designed as a pillow book, intended to be kept by the side of the bed. Author Anne Hooper makes a point of saying that this is not "a deadly serious sex manual," but is suppose to be fun. The value is that it is full of things to make your love life a little more lively and premised on the idea that some of the best sex takes the form of games or dressing up. Some of the tips involve food while others focus on bath time, and all the ideas contained herein are designed to tempt, tantalize, and torture (but not necessarily in that order).
"Great Sex Tips" is divided into six chapters: (1) Seduction, which consists of dozens of little things you can do to get your partner into the mood; (2) In the Mood covers foreplay, albeit in a broader sense than would occur to most of us; (3) Loving Him is basically insights into the male body while (4) Loving Her performs the same duty for the female; (5) Erotic Toys does not necessarily involve a trip to the local sex shoppe but actually covers household items at hand; and (6) Sex Games outlines some specific suggestions on why for couples to have fun.
Obviously the point is not to read this book cover to cover, but to flip through and find one or two things to try the next time. The book is not as richly illustrated as some of the other DK volumes (R or NC-17), because the print is a tad oversized and often you will only find an idea or two on a page. The book is exactly what it purports to be, a catalogue of tips that can help you expand your sexual repertoire, not to mention, according to the front flap, to help you "become a bold, provocative, and imaginative lover," which certainly strikes me as a laudable goal, even at my advanced age.
Hooper is a practicing sex therapist and relationship counselor in both the U.S. and Britain, as well as a best-selling author. The founder of the Women's Sexuality Workshop and a former director of the Forum Clinic, her best selling titles published by DK include "Anne Hooper's Ultimate Sex Guide," "Great Sex Games," and the "Pocket Sex Guide." This particular volume came in a little boxed set labeled the Lover's Library with "Lovers' Weekend Guide" and "Can You Pass the Sex Test?"
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Sex For Dummies



The bestselling guide to a rewarding sex life and a deeper relationship
Looking for the straight facts on sex? In this friendly, authoritative guide, renowned sex therapist Dr. Ruth gives you the latest on everything from oral sex and popular positions to new methods of birth control. She also debunks sex myths and covers new therapies to manage low libido, overcome sexual dysfunction, and enhance pleasure.
Praise for Dr. Ruth and Sex For Dummies
"Her energy level is higher than that of a charged particle."
--People Magazine
"Dr. Ruth writes the way she talks -- enthusiastically, nonjudgmentally, and informatively. . . ."
--Booklist
"Her name and the distinctive thrill of her voice have become inextricably linked with the subject of sex."
--New York Times
Discover how to
* Enjoy the first time
* Enhance foreplay and afterplay with your partner
* Avoid STDs and have safer sex
* Discuss sex with your kids
* Navigate cybersex
From the Back Cover
Try new sexual positions
The bestselling guide to a rewarding sex life and a deeper relationship
Looking for the straight facts on sex? In this friendly, authoritative guide, renowned sex therapist Dr. Ruth gives you the latest on everything from oral sex and popular positions to new methods of birth control. She also debunks sex myths and covers new therapies to manage low libido, overcome sexual dysfunction, and enhance pleasure.
Praise for Dr. Ruth and Sex For Dummies
"Her energy level is higher than that of a charged particle."
People Magazine
"Dr. Ruth writes the way she talks enthusiastically, nonjudgmentally, and informatively. . . ."
Booklist
"Her name and the distinctive thrill of her voice have become inextricably linked with the subject of sex."
New York Times
Discover how to
* Enjoy the first time
* Enhance foreplay and afterplay with your partner
* Avoid STDs and have safer sex
* Discuss sex with your kids
* Navigate cybersex
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Dating For Dummies



If you think dating is a simple process--meet someone, ask him or her for a date or get asked out yourself, try not to come off as a drooling moron, then arrange to get together for a second date or cut your losses and work to meet someone else--well, lucky you. For many people, it's far more complicated than that, and Dr. Joy Browne addresses those complexities in Dating for Dummies. Exactly how do you meet a potential date? How do you present yourself in the most favorable light? How do you negotiate that first date? (One interesting story Browne tells is of a couple who negotiated a weekend together, deciding whether or not they'd have sex, and under what conditions they'd consider marriage and children--all before their first date.) And how do you proceed from there? The process still comes down to chemistry, but Browne shows how many ways there are to make sure you get your best possible chance with Mr./Ms. Right.
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Soul Sex - Tantra For Two



This is not only a book about Tantric practices, but also about how you can use them to create a life-long, loving relationship. Because Pala and Al's emphasis is on Tantra in relationships, both beginners and skilled Tantric practitioners will find value here. Through the authors' mix of ancient Eastern sexual practices and modern Western approaches to communication and intimacy, you and your partner will learn to connect in ways that are respectful, nourishing, and lusty. Pala and Al offer their relationship as a model for a successful, long-term relationship in which to be happy, fulfilled, and spiritually awakened. Soul Sex includes thought-provoking discussions, personal anecdotes, and precise but simple techniques to inspire you to apply to your daily life. The observations and exercises included are drawn from the authors' own heady partnership and from the hundreds of couples they have had the privilege to teach at their Tantra sacred sex workshops.
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Male Sexual Enlightenment Book Collection
*She Comes First - Ian Kerner
Dispelling the widely held myth of genital penetration as the apogee of sexual pleasure, Kerner, who holds a doctorate in clinical sexology, offers this witty, well-researched manual for "consistently leading women to orgasm" through cunnilingus. Loaded with practical anatomical information (the clitoris has 18 distinct parts, and more nerve fibers than any other part of the human body) and graphic line drawings, the book also touches on the less mechanical, more psychological aspects of oral sex, including the three assurances every woman needs from her lover to feel comfortable: (1) "you enjoy it as much as she does"; (2) "there's no rush"; and (3) "Her scent is provocative, her taste powerful: it all emanates from the same beautiful essence." Since studies show the average woman takes about 20 minutes to reach her first orgasm during a typical sex session, while men take a mere four minutes, Kerner advises men to delay their own climax and make oral sex "coreplay" ("the substantive phase in which sexual tension builds, culminates and then releases itself through the female orgasm"), instead of foreplay. Breaking down six stages of coreplay, from the "first kiss" to orgasm, Kerner speaks to both beginners and more seasoned lovers. His candor concerning his own bout with sexual dysfunction adds a compassionate tone and credibility to this decidedly pro-female methodology.
*Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy - Mantak Chia
Mantak Chia reveals for the first time to the general public, the ancient sexual secrets of the Taoist sages. These secrets enable men to conserve and transform sexual energy through its circulation in the microcosmic orbit, invigorating and rejuvenating the body's vital functions. Hidden for centuries, these esoteric techniques and principles make the process of linking sexual energy and transcendent states of consciousness accessible to the reader. This revolutionary and definitive book teaches: higher taoist practices for alchemical transmutation of body, mind and spirit; the secret of achieving and maintaining full sexual potency; the Taoist "valley orgasm" - pathway to higher bliss; how to conserve and store sperm in the body; the exchange and balancing of male and female energies, within the body and with one's partner; and, how this practice can fuel higher achievement in career and sports.
*The Multi Orgasmic Man - Mantak Chia
All men can become multi orgasmic - just by learning some simple techniques. This mini edition distills all the key elements men need to know in order to experience multiple sexual peaks. Based on the Eastern Taoist principles of loving, this should be a spiritual as well as a practical read. Men of all ages should learn how to enlarge their range of sexual experience through a range of simple psychological and physical techniques. These techniques will allow men to fulfill their own sexual desires and their partner's dreams and fantasies by dramatically improving the quality and quantity of their lovemaking.
*Secrets to Male Multiple Orgasms
*Tantra - Sexual Martial Arts And Sexercise
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David DeAngelo - Deep Inner Game Seduction
David Deangelo is a dating expert who teaches men how to improve their dating lives with women. David Deangelo (Eben Pagan) has been one of the most influential member of the seduction community for many, many years. He was a student of Ross Jeffries under the alias of Sisonpyh and separated to develop his own beliefs and methods on attracting and seducing women. David Deangelo is considered to be one of the leading experts within the seduction community.
You re About To Learn Secrets That Most
Men Will Never Know About Developing
Total Confidence With Women
Inside you ll learn...
* The 7 things that tell a woman you LACK confidence when you meet her (Giving off just one of these deadly signs makes it almost impossible for her to feel attraction for you)
* How to patch up the holes in your self-esteem FOR GOOD and build a rock-solid foundation of confidence that all women feel when they re around you
* Do you find that the women you are interested in seem to LOSE interest in you after a few dates? Here s why (It s a surprisingly easy fix once you know the reason)
* A step-by-step exercise to pin-point your 3 biggest inner issues (including those you are afraid to admit to yourself) and defeat them from the inside out no matter how long they ve been troubling you or how deep they are buried in your mind
* How avoid letting the emotions you feel when you meet a really special woman cause you to make stupid mistakes that scare her away
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David Deangelo (World Famous Dating Guru) - 18 Ebooks
David Deangelo is a dating expert who teaches men how to improve their dating lives with women. David Deangelo (Eben Pagan) has been one of the most influential member of the seduction community for many, many years. He was a student of Ross Jeffries under the alias of Sisonpyh and separated to develop his own beliefs and methods on attracting and seducing women. David Deangelo is considered to be one of the leading experts within the seduction community.
Dating Tips:
- Approaching Women : A Great Example
- Funny jokes collection
- How To Flirt And Why
Double Your Dating / Here's a sample of some of the great things you'll learn:
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I've tried every 'pick-up line' in the book, and I found out something that I didn't expect in a million years. In chapter six I'll explain to you why most 'pick up lines' cause you to lose before you begin, and what to do instead.
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The simple thing you can do at the end of a conversation with a woman that leaves her eagerly waiting for more... and... gets HER to make the next call - pg. 56
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How to give a woman that same feeling of "I have to have him" that she gets from a guy who is rich, famous, or good looking... without being any of those things yourself - pg. 12
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The thing almost all men do to try to keep a woman interested that actually repels her twice as fast... and often drives her into the arms of another man - pg. 14
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A proven exercise to develop a stone-cold, unshakable inner confidence that allows you to approach a woman in any situation without getting nervous and without fear of rejection - pg. 26
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7 things you can you do to dramatically improve your physical appearance OVERNIGHT (The best part is they cost very little in time or money... yet they double the chances of a woman responding positively to you) - pgs. 23 & 24
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The "mixed signal" women give in the bedroom that throws off 99% of all men... leaving her unsatisfied. Here's what to do instead. (Hint: It's not what she says, but what she DOES that matters) - pg. 61
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The 6 things inexperienced guys do that instantly tell a woman they are NEEDY and INSECURE... and ruins their chances with her forever (Here's what to do instead) - pg. 33
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I read all the books, went to the seminars, and tried everything. It wasn't until I did THIS ONE THING that it all started to happen for me. On page 29 I'll share the single most powerful thing you can do to become more successful at attracting women, and why almost no men do it.
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5 things you can do in the crucial first 10 minutes with a woman that instantly let her know you're "in her league" (When she realizes you're a "rare catch" she'll do whatever she can to impress you) - pg. 45
David DeAngelo - One default thing to do in any situation
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Sexual Secrets The Alchemy of Ecstasy



Review:
I often laugh at all those articles in men's and women's fad magazines that promise to reveal new "sexual secrets". You know which ones I mean . . . "Become an Animal in Bed"; "9 Ways to Turn Him On"; "Keep Her Motor Humming"; "Sex Secrets Your Neighbors Won't Tell You"; "11 Erotic Uses for a Chicken Baster" . . . stuff like that. The list goes on and on, ad nauseum. Geared towards couples who have their obligatory sex two times a week for 30 minutes and need new, neat little sound-bite ideas to keep things from getting boring. All heavy on fancy shtick and paint-by-number techniques, light on any real depth or substance.
And so . . . I write this review to promise readers that, despite the poor choice of main title, this exceptional tome is not like that at all. "Secrets" here refers to holistic, ancient wisdom that celebrates the beauty and power of the sexual energy within all of us; sexual energy that permeates all of life. Thus the subtitle, "The Alchemy of Ecstacy", more accurately hits upon the truth. The word 'tantra' means 'interwoven'. The two authors have compiled a veritable bible of ancient tantric wisdom illuminating the interconnectedness of all things - an interconnectedness that has its most wonderful, powerful, and delicious expression in the sexual union between two people.
Think of this book as an encyclopedia of sacred sexuality, albeit one not in alphabetical order . . . and not sold by traveling, door-to-door salesmen, thank goodness. It is a guide to everyday living, but not from a dogmatic perspective. It is a grand expose of everything sexual. The authors provide explanations of yoga poses, stretching techniques, and breathing exercises (for instance, to summon that kundalini energy up the spine). They even have small sections devoted to food, water, clothing, massage, worship, and service to others. But it also probes (pardon the pun) the depths of the stories of Brahma the Creative, Shiva and Shakti, and Vishnu the Preserver. And of course, there are plenty of sexual positions and sensual poetry. With pictures! We like pictures!
The whole point is that, despite what organized religion would like us to think, we are sexual creatures and we should be celebrating that fact every day through our everyday activities. All of these things (eating, yoga, service, etc) ARE manifestations of our sexual energy - giving to and connecting with Life and with others. Cultivating that sexual energy (indeed, our very life-force energy and the energy that creates Universes . . . if you will allow my melodramatic flourish) is a constant, all-day thing. But not with the sole purpose of "getting some" or even "being a better lover". Instead, to connect with Source through sexual union and remember our Oneness. As the authors say in the Introduction, "It is for those who wish to use the sexual bond as a means to liberation and who desire to transcend the limits of the individual self."
This book helped start me down the path of tantra and sacred sexuality a few years ago. May I humbly recommend it to others who seek the same.
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David Deangelo - 77 Laws of Success with Women and Dating
This is an excellent dating programme, but it is also a great life programme. It can help you on so many areas, not only on the dating/relationship level.
This does exactly what it suggests, gives you 77 laws of success with women and dating. You can consider these as the laws of dating. This programme gives you the short hand easily available information that you want.
Purpose of this programme is to educate you on the laws of dating and how they can be used to improve your dating skills overall.
1. Accept everything the way it is
* Don t live in a pretend world
2. Take Responsibility
* Be some that makes something happen
* Can t control outside yourself
3. Go to work on yourself, not women
4. Evict your inner Wussy
5. Build a powerful self image that you love
6. Make your frame of reference inside
* External frame of reference Worried what others think and if you re pleasing them
* Inner frame of reference Make your own decisions to make your life better
7. Stop making indentify meaning out of external events
* Don t think I m a bad person because someone said you are
8. Failure
* Failure is a made up thing, don t apply meaning to failure
9. Compare your progress and success only to yourself
* Everyone wants to be a winner
* 2 types of winning:
1. Achieving what you want
2. Beating someone else
* 2 is bad because you don t get what you want
* Run your own race
10. Evolve constantly and consciously
* Always seek the next level
* We re all on the train tracks and the train is coming, most people look down and try to occupy themselves
* You can t evolve longer than your lifespan
11. See yourself as high Status
* Build yourself a high status self image
12. Stop Apologising
13. Stop seeking approval
* Approval seekers - Does things so the social group will accept them
* You don t need approval from others
14. Stop giving approval to get it
15. Stop trading status for approval
16. Untangle things like present and future
* Past, present and future
* Physical, emotional
* Sit down for 60 seconds and consider the short, medium and long term status
* Human are terrible at predicting how we re going to feel in the future Fear of something in the future
17. Surround yourself with success authors
18. Know your purpose or path in life
* Man, who chooses 2 rabbits, catches none
19. Travel
* If you re not regularly leaving your bubble you are limiting yourself, not much development
20. Everyday find your centre and then make yourself centre
* Make yourself the centre Notice it s all your reality
* Notice your breathing
21. Focus on the core skills
* Focus on core skills and techniques, rest will handle themselves
22. Accept and embrace transition anxiety
* Transition anxiety comes on when you start new things Fear of looking stupid or incompetent
23. Teach others something great you ve learnt
* Makes you learn what you teach much better
24. Never whine or complain
* Never criticise or complain about anything or anyone
25. Objectify your dreams so you control them
* Objectifying is to witness and understand what is happening
26. Become selfish so you can become generous
* Make yourself important first as main priority, this way you can fill your mind with useful things so you can give them back
27. Surround yourself with successful models and eliminate negative models
* Areas in life that are pulling you down failure minding people
* Your sub-conscious absorbs negative stuff as well
28. Keep doing what works and stop doing what doesn t
29. Maintain your composer
30. Prove to yourself over and over that you can cope with rejection
* Realise you re ok
* Realise them rejecting you does not need to effect you
31. Learn how to always enjoy yourself
* You are responsible for generating your own focus of reality
32. Learn to sacrifice short term gratification for long term gratification
33. Value yourself and your time more than any woman
34. Develop your awareness
* Notice everything you see
35. Learn to control your emotions
* Emotions are miracles Control motivation, learning ability Everything
* Emotions are the most addictive chemicals in the universe
36. Become unbelievable honest and direct when needed to
* More you do it the more people will respect you and value you as a high status person
* Tell them right or wrong i their doing something
37. Learn to identify social status by communication and body language instantly
* A high status person is looking away while talking
38. Become an expert on your own self-deception
39. Balance learning, practicing and doing
40. Constantly improve yourself
* You re not done when you achieve something
41. Stop projecting your strengths and weaknesses on to others
* Characteristics you hate in a person are what you hate in yourself What you like in others is also what you like in yourself
42. Eliminate deconstructive habits
* Notice negative habits before they happen then change their directions to positive
43. Recognise when you re losing control over yourself and just stop
44. Make your territory yours
* We don t really get a chance to use our territorial instinct so we tend to use it in a negative way
* If someone says something or is annoying tell them to leave
45. Lead
* Definition of leadership isn t controlling people and stopping them screwing up, it is to find effective people and organise them
* Study leading and leadership
* Leaders naturally attract women
46. Stop idealising women when you interact with them
* Stop making her into the perfect woman with no flaws
47. Stop idealising relationships
* A relationship isn t perfect and won t make other areas of your life perfect
48. Let her problems be her problems
* Lets her mature better
* Her problems aren t your problems She made them
* If you help sort out her problems you are robbing them from their opportunity to mature
49. Don t try to control her by giving money
* If you give gifts etc and she doesn t appreciate them, you will resent her and it will be bad
* If you try to control a woman, you have a problem in yourself to sort out
50. Stop trying to impress women
51. As you learn pay constant detail to your hygiene, dress and posture and all details
* Keep doing it until it becomes a habit
* Respect yourself and constantly look at your details
52. Eliminate nervous tics and unconscious behaviours
53. Make yourself into the most interesting person a woman has ever met
* Look into the world and see what are the most interesting things in the world on average, not what you think
* Learn how to tell stories
54. Setup your life so you are constantly meeting interesting, attractive, available women automatically
* How could you setup your life to meet them automatically?
55. Behave as if you have a 100 women calling you every day
* How would you act if 100 women were calling you daily?
56. Don t be boring or predictable
* Don t let other people guess what is going to happen
* Boredom When nothing interesting is happening around you
57. Learn how to tell an interesting story about anything
* Interesting stories are like operas
58. Make friends with attractive women by becoming a guy women want to be around
* Have them the same as the women you d like to attract
59. Learn how to turn a woman on mentally, emotionally and physically
60. Learn the entire mating process of humans
61. Learn how to read situations before acting
62. Tease in every way
* Don t tease in a mean way
* Don t tease predictably
* Give something and take away
63. Be honest, authentic with women at all times
64. Set a boundary as soon as possible
* Don t touch me Says your aware what s going on
* If she does something that isn t acceptable tell her to stop
* Let women know you are an aware individual
65. Look past the content to see the true meaning of what s going on
66. Engage her emotions and her body, not so much her mind
* Using logic to turn her on is bad
67. Turn everything into an adventure
* Take a woman to run errands even if you ve just met her
68. Convince yourself that what is going to happen is going to be unbelievably fun and convince her of it
* Have fun always
69. Always act and communicate to leave her wanting more
* What to do End everything she is enjoying and end it on an up note
70. When you hit a challenge or setback, go back to the basics
* Do not act out of desperation
71. When you find yourself losing power with a woman step back and get her to come to you
* When you think the relationship is going to fail, stop the relationship End on good terms, you end it
72. Always have 3 female friends around you who are similar to the ones you d like to meet
* Get 3 female friends
73. When you find something she really likes, stop, pull back until she really wants it
74. Learn how to make conversations interesting for the woman
* Listen to conversations women have
* They don t want a male girl-friend
75. Learn what it is to be a renaissance man then become one
* Renaissance the time period
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